Hi Laura,
Remembering that you once featured one, I recently looked on your site for a post-partum support belt. I didn’t see one, however. Did I overlook it or have you discontinued this item? If the latter, is there one out there that you’d be able to recommend?
Thanks,
K
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Hi K,
I never sold one on my site, but I did talk about them online a few times, I forget where now!
I liked this one because it was comfy, easy to get on/off, and had a snap crotch, so it didn’t ride up or move around:
http://www.orchardcorset.com/
I also have one by Annette similar to this, nice when you don’t want so much coverage:
http://www.herroom.com/
And you can always go for softer support and just get a pair of Spanx:
http://www.barenecessities.
I like the Spanx a lot. A little hard to get into, but very, very comfy once in. There is a soft gusset at the bottom, so you just spread it apart when you need to use the bathroom. Not nearly as firm as the other options, but still provides good support and is really comfortable.
I like the thigh support too, because the panty-like options were not as comfortable. They tended to ride up and give me a wedgie. The one that went down to the thigh was much more comfy, and hey, I could use the thigh slimming too!
After my second baby I *lived* in my post-partum support garments. My belly was so swollen, loose and floppy, and my back so weak, plus I had a C-section and that didn’t feel very good either. I felt SO much better with a girdle on. I could stand up straighter, my back felt exponentially better, and my self-esteem was lifted by not having my belly swing around when I walked.
They are also great for helping heal the abdominal separation that most women get from pregnancy splitting their abdominal muscles apart, especially if you tend to carry large and out front.
I read an article recently mocking the return of the girdle and corset. Well, I certainly don’t think that everyone needs one, and I don’t think we should return to an artificial wasp-waisted look, but I think that girdles definitely serve a purpose for those of us who need post-partum support, or anyone who likes the feeling of being held together a bit.
Here’s what I wrote in response to the article:
Oh come now. Girdles serve a definite purpose, and corsets are not necessarily the organ-smushing, faint-inducing contraptions they once were.
I used to have a small waist, and very strong abs. Never had a day of back pain in my life. I lifted heavy weights, and toted them like feathers.
Then I got pregnant. I gained 70 pounds (yes, I lost it afterwards), and my son was a BIG baby who stuck right out front. My abs split neatly in half right down the middle of my body, with a 3 inch gap in between them.
THEN I had an emergency C-section, so they were cut in half the other way too. Talk about a mess. My poor abs were thoroughly destroyed, a complete wreck. Where once my core had been a mighty firmament, the anchor of my strength, now it was a lumpy pooch sticking out in front of me, scarred and sad.
Plus oh LORD how my back ached. With no support from up front, my back started to give out under the strain of lifting and carrying my ever-growing bundle of joy.
I was macho at first and did crunches and all kinds of things to try to fix it. Then I read Julie Tupler’s “Lose Your Mummy Tummy” (stupid name, great book) and discovered that I had been doing everything all wrong.
What I needed to do was to support my abs and hold them together, while strengthening the inner muscles that go around my core and provide a natural girdle of muscle. Until my natural girdle of muscle could be knitted back together though, I needed help just holding my internal organs in so that they didn’t pooch out of my lower belly and put even MORE strain on my back.
Enter my first girdle. I got a “waist cincher” from a corset shop online. It’s not extreme, but it’s very supportive, with hook and eye closures. It’s black, I think it’s even sexy!
My back is now well-supported. I can bend and lift with no pain and without feeling like my guts are going to spill out the front of my body. My ab separation is not constantly being torn open again and again, so it’s actually healing now. My pooch is going away.
The girdle is not some new tool of the patriarchy. It’s a very old garment, meant to support women in what becomes a very weak area after childbirth. I see new moms all the time in my line of work, and many bewail their weakened, poochy middles. It’s not just that it looks bad, it’s literally *crippling* to have your abs split in half, which is what happens to many pregnant women.
So give the corset-bashing a rest. If more women wore girdles after having a baby, they might feel better and regain their core strength sooner. Instead, why not write an article on Julie Tupler and what she’s doing to educate pregnant women and new moms about their bodies? I’m a bio major and I had no clue about post-partum ab care and general new mom ergonomics. My doctor told me I needed surgery to fix my ab separation and there was nothing else I could do.
Hope that helps! And for those of you who think wearing a girdle is nuts and feel great post-partum, fabulous…more power to you! To each her own. Go with what works for you.
